I see so many heterosexual marriages where the people go to church religiously but they’re mean to each other and they don’t treat their kids right. How often do you hear people complaining about gay marriages and tsk-tsking when the gay couple adopts a kid? It doesn’t matter to them that the family is very happy; they’ve broken a covenant with God, some people say. Well, to me, if there’s love and respect in a marriage, that’s the covenant with God. What goes on in the bedroom is another story and I don’t want to pass judgment on anyone else’s story. I hate to remember that once I was one of those other kind of people—the kind that judges gays, blacks, other types of different poorly. It makes me deeply ashamed that I was ever like that.