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I see so many heterosexual marriages where the people go to church religiously but they’re mean to each other and they don’t treat their kids right. How often do you hear people complaining about gay marriages and tsk-tsking when the gay couple adopts a kid? It doesn’t matter to them that the family is very happy; they’ve broken a covenant with God, some people say. Well, to me, if there’s love and respect in a marriage, that’s the covenant with God. What goes on in the bedroom is another story and I don’t want to pass judgment on anyone else’s story. I hate to remember that once I was one of those other kind of people—the kind that judges gays, blacks, other types of different poorly. It makes me deeply ashamed that I was ever like that.
— Michael Groover, Paula Deen’s husband, My Delicious Life with Paula Deen (via apsies) (via evangotlib)

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February 5, 2010
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My LIfe With The Thrill Kill Kult - A Daisy Chain 4 Satan (Acid and Flowers Mix)

from Confessions of a Knife

Wax Trax! was such a great label from the late ’80s through the mid ’90s, before Jim Nash and Dannie Flesher were forced to sell to TVT. I knew Nash had died of AIDS in ‘95, but I just found out Dannie Flesher died of Pneumonia on January 10th.  Sad that they’re both gone. Former Wax Trax! employee Bart Pfanenstiel has started up WTII Records, with the hope of continuing their great work.

3 days ago

February 5, 2010

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Franken recalled that back in the 1980s, the television networks urged the FCC to drop its Financial Interest and Syndication (FYN-SYN) rules, which barred networks from owning all but a small chunk of the programming that they aired—which the agency did. The senator recalled that, at the time, NBC executives promised that relaxing FYN-SYN would not lead the network to favor its own content.

‘But by 1992 NBC was the single largest supplier of its own primetime programming,’ Franken continued. ‘Today, if an independent producer wants to get its own show on NBC’s schedule, on any network’s schedule, it is routine practice, and you guys know it, for the network to demand at least part ownership of the show… And that’s just a fact. So while I commend NBCU and Comcast for making voluntary commitments as part of this merger, you’ll have to excuse me if I don’t trust these promises.’

3 days ago

February 5, 2010
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[Obama was elected because] we do not have a civics, literacy test before people can vote in this country.

Colorado Republican Tom Tancredo, in his opening-night speech at the National Tea Party Convention (via TPM)

Literacy and civics test were used during the Jim Crow era to keep blacks from voting. Note that this is the same man who said Sonia Sotomayor was a member of the “Latino KKK” and who’s former speechwriter (for his failed presidential run) plead guilty to delivering a “karate chop” to a random black woman after calling her a nigger.

kateoplis:

Telegraph: A resident prepares mud cakes at the zone of Cite-Soleil in Port-au-Prince. The cakes, made of mud with a bit of salt and vegetable oil spread, are a traditional Haitian remedy for hunger pangs.
romeojulietsierra: negevrockcity

kateoplis:

Telegraph: A resident prepares mud cakes at the zone of Cite-Soleil in Port-au-Prince. The cakes, made of mud with a bit of salt and vegetable oil spread, are a traditional Haitian remedy for hunger pangs.

romeojulietsierra: negevrockcity

3 days ago

February 5, 2010
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itsthr33am:

poortaste:

Ganja White Night - Peace by Fear
Super Jail Bad Trip Remix
http://www.myspace.com/gwnofficial

via dubstepfriday

Great track!  And a gorgeous, trippy, The Wall-meets-Yellow Submarine animated video that appears to be built mostly (entirely?) from clips of Superjail!.

3 days ago

February 5, 2010
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Suspicions about China slipping eavesdropping technology into computer exports have been around for years. But the recent spying attacks, attributed to China, on Google and other Internet companies have revived the hardware spying concerns. An IT World blogger suggests the gear can’t be trusted, noting that it wouldn’t be hard to add security holes to the firmware of Chinese-made USB memory sticks, computers, hard drives, and cameras. He also implies that running automatic checks for data of interest in the compromised gear would not be difficult.

3 days ago

February 5, 2010
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Die Antwoord Is “Fake,” And So What? - Backlashes - Videogum

I am just saying: let us not turn our backs on Die Antwoord. Not now. I’m sure for some reason everyone would have liked it better if they were actually borderline mentally-retarded Poor Children from Ghettos covered in Generic Cheetoes Dust and Meth Crumbs or whatever, but none of these new revelations makes what they are doing any less great.

There were certainly signs that they were “fake”, but I chose to ignore them. Who cares? I’m actually even more intrigued now.

3 days ago

February 5, 2010

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Then, in June, he called, anxious to speak to Phyllis. My stomach lurched a little when I realized that it was Salinger, for real, on the other end of the phone, speaking rather too loudly and seeming a bit confused by my voice, though I tried to speak brightly and enunciate. He was, alas, somewhat deaf and refused to use the amplified phone his wife, a nurse, had installed for him.
 
It turned out something momentous was afoot in Salingerland: Eight years earlier, a small publisher in Alexandria, Va., had written to him, asking whether they might put out a book consisting solely of Salinger’s novella “Hapworth 16, 1929,” which had appeared in The New Yorker in 1965. To the shock of Phyllis—and everyone else at Ober—Salinger had, after years of thought, decided that this “fellow in Virginia” could publish “Hapworth.” Suddenly, he was calling all the time, anxious about the details of this new deal, which seemed like it might mark a tentative re-entry into the world he’d abandoned 30 years earlier. Ober, just as suddenly, seemed charged with a frenetic energy. Phyllis bustled around the office and had long, loud conversations with Salinger, going over the details of the new book, from the cloth of the binding to the font to the paper stock. She asked him about the publisher, a retired professor, whom Salinger seemed to like very much, to Phyllis’ surprise. It was not often, I supposed, that Salinger took a shine to someone new. In a way, I realized, the Virginia publisher was simply one of the fans whose letters I fielded, one who had managed to break through the wall of Ober’s protectorate and prove to Salinger that, yes, they really were kindred spirits.

One day, as I transcribed a round of letters for Phyllis, a tall man with dark eyes and thinning gray hair arrived in the little antechamber in which I sat. He glanced in my direction, seemed confused, then gave me a small yet warm smile. Before I could ask if he needed help, Phyllis came running out of her office, shouting, “Jerry! There you are!” A moment later, I was standing in front of my desk, just below the wall of Salinger’s books, shaking his large, dry hand. “Hello,” he said. “Nice to meet you. We’ve spoken on the phone many times.”

“We have,” I said, smiling stupidly.

“OK, we have a lot to talk about,” Phyllis said, guiding Salinger into her office. “This is a big year.”

The Hapworth book never materialized. The publisher gave an interview to a local magazine, and Salinger decided his new friend was a phony after all.

Joanna Smith Rakoff, on the brief period in the ’90s when J.D. Salinger wasn’t so much of a recluse.

3 days ago

February 4, 2010

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China has a death penalty, so does America. They even detain people without trial there.
A law maker in Aceh, Indonesia, defending a law he helped pass that calls for the stoning of adulturers. (via squashed) (via mikehudack)

3 days ago

February 4, 2010
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My secret life under 'don't ask, don't tell' - CNN.com

dominilucy:

nashvilleneedsmoremetaphors:

At 8:30 a.m. on September 11, I went to a meeting in the Pentagon. At 9:30 a.m. I left that meeting. At 9:37 a.m., American Airlines Flight No. 77 slammed into the Pentagon and destroyed the exact space I had left less than eight minutes earlier, killing seven of my colleagues.

In the days and weeks that followed, I went to several funerals and memorial services for shipmates who had been killed. Most of my co-workers attended these services with their spouses whose support was critical at this difficult time, yet I was forced to go alone.

As the numbness began to wear off, it hit me how incredibly alone Lynne would have been had I been killed. The military is known for how it pulls together and helps people; we talk of the “military family,” which is a way of saying we always look after each other, especially in times of need. But none of that support would have been available for Lynne, because under “don’t ask, don’t tell,” she couldn’t exist.

4 days ago

February 4, 2010
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If you want to write something, don’t sit down in front of a blank screen, just, if you want to write something - have a vague think about what you want to write about, start taking notes, get somewhere like either a notebook, or a thing online, or a thing in your computer where you’re collecting every thought you have about the show, and don’t write it for ages. Writing is kind of like having a poo, basically; it’s really hard if you don’t want to go, but there’s a time when you have to go. And that’s what it should be like. There should be a time when you’ve put so much stuff in your subconscious, you’re just so excited about writing it, that you just have to sit down and get going. That’s really the secret, that’s where people falter, because they start writing too soon. They don’t know where to go, they sit down, they don’t know what the characters sound like, they don’t know what the world feels like, they don’t know what the tone should be. They haven’t put enough thought into those things.

Graham Linehan, discussing writing for television, in a particularly insightful episode of Charlie Brooker’s Screenwipe. (via foxbat)

Hopefully that poo comes before one’s deadline.

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4 days ago

February 4, 2010
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